I'm a single dad, like really single. Mom isn't really in the picture and besides from my wonderful girlfriend don't have much help at all. It's getting easier as my daughter gets older (almost 9 now) but wow I really don't want any more kids. I like the idea of it but I think I'm done. I don't begrudge anyone if they love having kids and think it's the best, nor if they never want any kids ever because they're terrible little monsters. On most days I feel both ways. I'll be in my early 40s when I lock my kid out of the house for the last time after I shoo her off to college (or whatever). I don't want to be parenting into my 50s or 60s. I'm done.